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A reminder that I’m old…but young

by Erika Torres
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Last weekend, Eric and I did something we rarely do:

  • We went to L.A.
  • We stayed out past 10

I know, I know, let’s not go crazy.

To be fair, we were in bed by 11 pm since we were staying with a friend and were running the LA Cancer Challenge 5K the next morning.

On Saturday night though, we went out to the Dark Room in West Hollywood. Going to L.A. makes me feel all kinds of fancy and grown-up. From where we live, it’s a solid hour drive so we don’t make it out there too much.

But it is pretty cool to pretend we’re hip and cool and young by hanging out at a dive bar in West Hollywood.

And I say pretend in all seriousness, because we got there around 7 pm and had food and drinks with a large group of people. But it wasn’t until about 9:30 pm (right around the time I started yawning), that people started showing up in droves–and in Halloween costumes!

Halloween parties…I remember those.

I also remember when 10 pm signaled the time it was safe enough to venture out to bars without looking like you weren’t cool because you were out too early. So I guess I’m officially in the old folks camp now.

When did I become so old?

Anyway, in an effort to maintain some youth, we made a last-minute stop at Millions of Milkshakes, who’s only claim to fame is Kim Kardashian.

Millions of Milkshakes

 

Because those shakes SUCK. Eric got a small Ferrero Rocher milkshake and it tasted like nothing and it was $5. For a small. And I LOVE Ferrero Rocher.

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Spending the night in West Hollywood at a friend’s apartment was…interesting. The apartment was right off of Melrose Ave. and we heard this guy screaming his head off in the middle of the night and using language that would make Miley Cyrus blush.

When we had to wake up six hours later, I was not a happy camper.

Then Eric told me how much he would love to live in the city.

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Eric and I have vastly different opinions about where to live. He thinks cities are perfect. What with their high crime rate and strangers yelling in the middle of the night keeping you up…yup, that’s his idea of nirvana right there.

I think suburbia with its great schools, nearby parks, and–oh I don’t know–safety, make a great place for raising a family.

The jury’s still out on that decision.

We ended up running the LA Cancer Challenge 5k on Team Tyler.

Tyler was a friend of Eric’s who passed away in 2012 of pancreatic cancer. He was 30 and he left behind a wife. He was also the only child of his parents.

This was the eighth year that Team Tyler has run the race (since Tyler was diagnosed), and between the 67 members, we raised $5,937. All funds go toward research on pancreatic cancer.

I think when it comes to donations and charity, it’s always great to be able to put a face on it. The only time I met Tyler was when Eric ran the race in 2010, the first year we were married.

But I met his wife and I met his parents, and it broke my heart to think such an outstanding and fit young man who had his whole life ahead of him was shockingly diagnosed and would lose his life just a few short years later.

Even though the circumstances for which Team Tyler was reuniting weren’t the happiest, it was great to see old friends and to meet new ones.

I ended up running the race in 31:43, which is about the same time–if not better– than my 5K times in high school.

Considering I’ve only run about 8 times since I did the Long Beach half-marathon last year, I’m pretty impressed with my time.

Which just goes to show that I may have a hard time staying out past 10 but I’ve still got it…

 

 

 

 

17 comments

Catherine November 7, 2013 - 6:26 pm

Wow, that’s a sad story about your friend. Cancer scares the shit out of me. You had a great time! I also can’t stay up late anymore though kids will do that to you!

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Taylor November 7, 2013 - 6:11 pm

I grew up in rural town PA, migrated to D.C. and can’t even think about leaving the city now. Come over to the dark side! hehehehe. Maybe you could try living in the city for a few years and see if you grow in to it? LOL.

Hats off to you for finishing the 5k! Meeting/beating your high school time is a hell of an accomplishment!

Taylor

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Rachel G November 6, 2013 - 4:38 am

It’s not that often I stay out past 10 either–though during this season, since it’s already getting dark around 5, when I stay out till 9 I feel like I’ve stayed out all night!

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Canadianbudgetbinder November 5, 2013 - 5:28 am

Congratulations on the 5k run and raising that much money for a fantastic cause.

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SuburbanFinance November 4, 2013 - 7:44 pm

WOW. Congrats on the funds you were able to raise! That’s great. I am with you on the suburbs. I’m a huge fan and I love not having to constantly hear noise, be around droves of people, and live on top of one another.

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Stefanie @ The Broke and Beautiful Life November 4, 2013 - 7:19 pm

I just ran the NYC marathon for Fred’s Team- the charity that supports cancer research at Memorial Sloan Kettering hospital in New York. I felt so uncomfortable asking people for money, but I felt so fantastic about reaching my goal and being able to raise $4,000 for the charity.

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Well Heeled Blog November 4, 2013 - 1:34 pm

You still got it. 🙂 What a great cause.

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Jolene November 4, 2013 - 12:36 pm

LOL I have a hard time staying up late too. it is RARE. And congrats on the good time for the 5K!!! yay 🙂

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Debt and the Girl November 4, 2013 - 12:15 pm

Ugh! Crappy, expensive milkshakes suck! I am sorry that you had to go through that. LA sounds like fun, though.

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Sanibel November 4, 2013 - 11:02 am

Way to go you two! That is awesome! It always is nice to put a face with the name/charity. It gives even more meaning behind it all.
And I’m with ya, living in the city like that would scare the crap out of me!

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CeCe @Pink Sunshine November 4, 2013 - 8:35 am

I’ve had passing thoughts about going out in LA just to do it once but it’s never happened. We live further away then you do and the older we get….it’s probably not gonna happen. I agree with you on suburbia. Safe and quiet wins out. Such a sad story about Tyler. 30. Way too young. It’s so wonderful that you all get together and honor him that way.

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Erin @ My Alternate Life November 4, 2013 - 8:23 am

Yeah, I’m about done by 10. I’m not one for going out late at night. Old at 24, right here.

I like city living in safe neighborhoods. I’m in Portland, which is a super safe city from what I can tell, especially compared to the others I’ve been in. I spent 5 days in L.A. (staying in hotels in Compton and Inglewood because I was an idiot) and I gotta say, I’m not a fan. I need to feel safe!

Great job on your run! 30 is so freaking young, that really makes me sad :(. It’s awesome that you guys were able to raise that much in his memory.

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Budget and the Beach November 4, 2013 - 8:13 am

That’s so awesome you all get together to honor Tyler’s memory and help raise money as well. 30 is just way to fucking young! Can you tell cancer pisses me off? 🙂 And even though I AM older now, when I was your age (OK shoot me for saying that) I was right there with you in not enjoying staying out late and going out to clubs. Maybe in my 20’s, but def. not in my 30’s. I’m somewhere in between the city/suburb thing. LIke in Seattle, I lived in the city itself, but in one of the districts surrounding downtown which was more tranquil like a suburb. I don’t like the burbs in general because I grew up in one and was bored out of my mind. I do need a lot of culture around me!

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Tanner November 4, 2013 - 7:54 am

Hey, you can always cheat your way into beautiful, modern and hip youth by using my trick… it’s cheap. No, it’s better than cheap; free. And better than free; you get paid for it! That’s right. Work at a restaurant or bar or hotel, and you can be out living it out, going to parties with strangers with alcohol (serving it, not drinking it, of course). I love it when I meet new people and they ask me what I do on the weekends… “Oh, party, go to someone’s wedding, attend a conference…”. I eventually let it out that I get paid for these events, and that’s when they connect the dots that I am working and not actually a guest. Hey, it still works.

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Mrs PoP @ Planting Our Pennies November 4, 2013 - 7:07 am

Ah, yes. I remember the days when you didn’t leave the apartment until 10pm… Barely. =).

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Jasemin May 30, 2014 - 12:06 pm

So that’s the case? Quite a reavletion that is.

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Army Amy November 4, 2013 - 6:20 am

Wow! That’s a fantastic amount of money y’all raised for pancreatic cancer research. A race takes on a whole new meaning when it’s for such a personal cause. And you ran it fast. Well done!

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